At some point in time, we seemingly accepted that the minute someone parked the car outside the office, opened the laptop, and logged onto the work Wi-Fi, they became a different person.
Somewhere along the way, a strange divide between Brian the Consumer and Brian the Businessman was established.
Or the split between B2C and B2B.
Somewhere Between B2B and "Synergy,"We Lost the Human
Marketers have been trained to speak in those categories: business to business, business to consumer, stakeholder journeys, buying committees, lifecycle stages, synergy, alignment, enablement, and all the other words that make normal people want to climb out a bathroom window.
As marketers, we’ve been trained to speak “business to business” (B2B) or “business to consumer” (B2C). But instead of this creating a simple framework for dialogue between humans, it set forth an unnatural language for marketers, using words like “synergy.”
Kramer pushed back against that language in There Is No B2B or B2C: It’s Human to Human #H2H, arguing that business communication is still human communication. His point was mostly about language, tone, and authenticity, not privacy regulation. But the same principle travels well. If marketing should speak to the human behind the job title, then privacy should also respect the human behind the click.
The person researching software, comparing suppliers, or downloading a guide during office hours does not stop being human just because the purchase order has a company name on it. Trust in sales starts there. If you want someone to share useful data, reveal a business problem, and invite a conversation, you have to earn that information — not grab it from the shadows and call it personalisation.
The Spreadsheet Does Not Sign the Contract
Many marketers defend the split because Brian spending company money is different from Brian spending his own. And, to a point, they are right. Consumer marketing is often wrapped in emotion, identity, aspiration, status, fear of missing out, keeping up with the Joneses, and the quiet promise that this jacket, car, watch, moisturiser, or air fryer will somehow turn you into the person you were always meant to be.
B2B targeting, meanwhile, puts on a quarter-zip, opens a spreadsheet, and starts talking about efficiency, productivity, ROI, procurement, risk reduction, stakeholder alignment, operational resilience, and “synergy” — a word that should legally require a small apology every time it is used.
But here is the problem: the buyer has not become a spreadsheet just because the purchase order has a company name on it.
B2B Trust Is Still Trust
Brian may be spending a budget, not his own debit card, but he is still the one putting his name beside a decision. He still has to trust the supplier. He still has to explain the choice to his boss.
He still has to deal with the fallout if the “enterprise transformation platform” turns out to be a very expensive login screen, three broken dashboards, and a support chatbot with grand delusions of becoming the next Microsoft Clippy.
So yes, B2B buying is different. The stakes are often higher, the process is slower, and the decision involves more people. But that does not mean privacy becomes irrelevant. If anything, it makes trust more important.
Because in B2B, you are not just asking Brian to click “buy now.” You are asking him to raise his hand, reveal a business problem, invite a sales conversation, and possibly put his professional judgement on the line.
That is a very strange moment to make him feel like he has wandered into a tracking experiment wearing a lanyard.
When Personalisation Becomes a Bit Too Personal
Brian the Consumer gets privacy notices, consent banners, and the minimum dignity required by EU privacy law.
Brian the Businessman, however, is fair game.
The moment he downloads a whitepaper, attends a webinar, clicks a LinkedIn ad, or asks for a pricing guide, he is no longer simply a human being trying to solve a problem. He becomes a “high-intent contact” with a lifecycle stage, a device profile, a content history, an estimated buying committee role, and enough inferred characteristics to make you wonder whether someone has been hiding in his backyard with a pair of binoculars and a clipboard.
Before long, the marketing stack knows, or thinks it knows, that Brian drives a Toyota Prius because he likes efficiency but does not trust charging infrastructure, owns an iPhone and a MacBook, works remotely on Mondays and Tuesdays, once attended a partner conference in 2021, opened three emails about workflow automation, and spent 27 minutes on a pricing page while eating what was probably a disappointing sandwich.
The Attribution Model Enters the Room
This will then be further justified by a questionable attribution model that declares Brian is clearly a “practical buyer.”
If he drives a Toyota, he probably wants the sensible CRM, not the flashy BMW of CRMs.
If he uses Apple, he must be privacy-conscious, not simply working at a company where everyone was handed a MacBook and told to get on with it.
If he works from home a few days a week, he must need an enterprise-level VPN to protect company data from the lawless frontier of his domestic Wi-Fi.
And if he spent nearly half an hour on the pricing page for an ERP system that costs more than a small bungalow in Leitrim, he is obviously showing buying intent — not a man who left the tab open while making toast, set off the smoke alarm, and returned to find he had been promoted to sales-qualified lead, complete with three missed calls, a voicemail, and a check-in email with his name spelled wrong.
At which point, personalisation stops sounding helpful and starts sounding like a man in a fleece gilet whispering:
“We’ve been expecting you, Brian from Operations.”
The Work Badge Does Not Cancel the Person
And that is the problem.
Privacy does not stop mattering just because someone is wearing their work badge.
We have somehow decided that Brian buying socks deserves a little privacy, but Brian from Operations can be tracked, scored, enriched, and profiled until the marketing stack practically knows what car he drives, what laptop he uses, which days he works from home, and whether he is the kind of man who buys a Toyota Prius for the fuel economy while muttering darkly about the lack of charging points.
But Brian is still Brian.
He may be researching software instead of buying socks, but he is still a person making a decision, weighing trust, managing risk, and wondering whether filling in one form will summon a seven-email sales sequence, three LinkedIn nudges, and a check-in note beginning with the immortal phrase:
“I hope this email finds you well.”
The Better Approach: Earn the Data
Because stale data is where personalisation becomes a guessing game with merge tags. Brian from Operations may no longer work in Operations. He may have left Shipping & Logistics and moved into a cushy government job where the biggest operational emergency is whether the tea bags have been restocked before 11.
Good data is earned, not harvested
— and it only stays valuable if it stays true.
Yet somewhere, a marketing automation system is still treating him like a high-intent logistics buyer, sending him guides about warehouse optimisation while he quietly enjoys a slower pace, a pension scheme, and meetings that end with “we’ll revisit this next quarter.”
That is not smart marketing.
That is a database refusing to accept a man has moved on.
Make the Data Useful, Not Just Available
The answer is not to throw away your CRM, delete your forms, and go back to shouting at strangers from a trade-show stand.
The answer is to make the data useful.
If Brian has graciously opted into marketing emails, do not immediately fire him into a generic newsletter called “Industry Insights Monthly”, featuring four trends, a stock image of someone pointing at a glass wall, and a subject line so dull it could be prescribed for insomnia.
Use what he actually showed interest in.
If he downloaded a guide about CRM migration, send him practical CRM migration content. If he asked about outbound sales, send him something useful about appointment setting, cold outreach, or sales development. If he came in through a pricing page, maybe do not pretend he is still at the “just browsing inspirational thought leadership” stage.
This is where CRM and marketing need to work together properly.
Not in the theatrical sense where marketing says “sales alignment” in a quarterly meeting and everyone nods while secretly updating separate spreadsheets. I mean actually together.
Your CRM should tell you:
- what Brian originally cared about
- what he downloaded or requested
- what page or campaign brought him in
- whether he opted into marketing
- whether sales spoke to him
- what sales learned from that conversation
- whether the timing was wrong, the fit was wrong, or the content simply overpromised
Because “Brian downloaded three whitepapers” is not a strategy.
It is barely a personality trait.
A better scoring system should look beyond raw activity. Three downloads might mean he is highly engaged. It might also mean he is confused, comparing vendors, writing an internal report, helping his boss, killing time before lunch, or trying to find the one useful paragraph hidden inside a gated PDF that promised “actionable insights” and delivered twelve pages of beige.
So when sales checks in and Brian gives them the time of day, use that moment properly.
Do not just ask whether he is “ready to book a demo.” Learn why he downloaded the content in the first place. Find out what problem brought him there. Was he actively looking for a supplier? Was he researching for later? Was he under pressure from leadership? Was he trying to understand the market? Was the timing wrong? Was the budget not there yet? Or did the gated content simply fail to answer the question he actually had?
That information is gold.
And unlike a third-party cookie, Brian actually gave it to you.
If the timing is not right, record that.
If he is early in the process, nurture him properly.
If he is interested in one service but not another, reflect that in future emails.
If he says “come back in six months,” do not send him fourteen automated follow-ups pretending the conversation never happened.
That is not personalisation.
That is a CRM with short-term memory loss.
The better approach is simple: let marketing create useful reasons for Brian to engage, let sales learn what is really going on, and let the CRM remember the truth instead of inventing intent from crumbs.
That is how first-party data should work.
Not as a surveillance net.
As a shared memory of a real business conversation.
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